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Our Take: Beyond the Headlines The Local Reality of Child Exploitation

March 4, 2026 by Jacob Stapledon

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Our Take: Beyond the Headlines – The Local Reality of Child Exploitation

Jacob Stapledon

March 4th, 2026

January was National Human Trafficking Prevention Month. Since 2010, presidents have formally recognized this month as a time to educate the public about how to identify, prevent, and respond to human trafficking. Awareness matters. Education matters. But in recent months, as headlines have increasingly focused on sexual abuse and exploitation of children, the conversation has become politicized.

When that happens, the issue can begin to feel distant — like something that happens somewhere else, in other communities, to other families. That perception is dangerous. Exploitation is not a “faraway” problem. It exists in neighborhoods across Massachusetts, including right here on Cape Cod and the Islands.

For more than ten years, the Children’s Advocacy Centers in southeastern Massachusetts, serving Cape Cod and the Islands, Bristol County, and Plymouth County have partnered with law enforcement, child protective services, medical providers, and mental health professionals to respond to child abuse and exploitation in our communities. We are part of a larger effort in coalition with the Massachusetts Children’s Alliance and the nine other Children’s Advocacy Centers throughout the Commonwealth of Massachusetts. Through coordinated, multidisciplinary collaboration, we work to ensure that children who have experienced abuse receive trauma-informed care in a safe and supportive environment. Our shared goal is not only to respond to cases, but to provide accurate information about how exploitation impacts our region.

The Issue

For many people, an understanding of human trafficking comes from movies or dramatic media portrayals. While these stories raise awareness, they often oversimplify a deeply complex issue. In reality, trafficking can look very different from one community to another and often does not resemble the scenarios portrayed on screen.

Broadly, human trafficking falls into two categories: labor trafficking and sex trafficking.

  • Labor trafficking involves compelling or coercing a person to provide labor or services.
  • Sex trafficking involves causing, inducing, or facilitating a person to engage in commercial sexual activity.

Under Massachusetts law, “force, fraud, or coercion” are not required elements when the case involves a minor engaged in commercial sexual activity. In fact, for anyone under the age of 18, the law recognizes the inherent vulnerabilities of youth. A child cannot legally consent to commercial sexual exploitation.

Because of these legal and developmental realities, professionals often use the term “sexual exploitation” when referring to minors. This language more accurately reflects the imbalance of power and the vulnerabilities involved, and it centers the responsibility where it belongs — on those who exploit children.

Understanding these distinctions is critical. When we recognize exploitation can occur without physical restraint, kidnapping, or dramatic force, we begin to see how it can happen in ordinary settings — through manipulation, grooming, online interactions, or trusted relationships. Education is not about fear. It is about clarity. And clarity helps communities respond.

Sexual exploitation can fall into several categories:

  • Commercial Sexual Exploitation (CSEC) occurs when a person under the age of 18 is offered or given something of value to them in exchange for some type of sexual act. It doesn’t have to be in person, and it doesn’t need to be money for it to be commercial sexual exploitation. Value could be anything to a child, this includes food, clothing, a warm place to sleep, better grades, vapes, alcohol, or other substances, a trip to a salon, or even a ride somewhere.
  • Child Sexual Abuse Material (CSAM) is defined as any visual depiction of sexually explicit conduct involving a minor (a person less than 18 years old.) CSAM is much more than photos and videos; it is a form of exploitation and abuse documented and shared across the internet in perpetuity. Every time an image is viewed, shared, paid for, or downloaded, the child is being revictimized and a crime takes place.
  • Sextortion is a form of child sexual exploitation where a child is blackmailed with the threat of sharing with the public a nude or sexual images of them by a person who wants more images/ videos or money from the child. Because these images are CSAM, with a child being threatened, sextortion is a form of sexual exploitation of children.
  • Online Enticement is when an individual communicates online with someone believed to be a child with the intent of committing a sexual offense or abduction.

There are other important facts to know. First, the person hurting the child might be a stranger, a partner, or even a family member. Second, a crime is committed as soon as someone offers or threatens a child for sex—even if no money or images have been swapped yet. Third, these are acts of child abuse. In Massachusetts, “mandated reporters” have a legal duty to report any suspected abuse to the state.

Protecting Children from Sexual Exploitation

Parents and caregivers are the first line of defense in preventing the sexual exploitation of children. To keep children safe, it is vital to be informed, active, and open. We have outlined a few steps you can take to reduce the chances of your child being abused.

Be Involved in Their Digital World

In our region, common trends and patterns show most exploitation begins online. It is critical for parents to be just as involved in their children’s online lives as they are in their sports or school activities.

  • Learn the Platforms: Take the time to understand the popular apps, social media, and games your children and teens are using.
  • Check Settings: Understand and use the privacy settings on all social media and apps to create a safety barrier.
  • Monitor All Devices: Exploitation can happen on any device that connects to the internet. This includes video game consoles, tablets provided by schools, and apps meant for schoolwork.
  • Keep Conversations Going: Without regular talks about online safety and monitoring of devices, the opportunity for exploitation to happen in plain sight remains high.

Create a Safe Space for Communication

It is important for kids and teens to know that if they make a mistake, they can have a calm, non-judgmental conversation with you to ask for help.

  • Build Trust: Children need to know that you will always believe them, fight for them, and put their safety first.
  • Reduce Fear: Sometimes, children are threatened by offenders to keep them quiet. Staying calm is crucial. If a child is fearful of threats, they are more likely to come to you if they know you will react with support rather than anger.
  • Say Thank You: If a child comes to you with a problem or reports that something happened to them, make sure to thank them for their courage in telling you.

What to Do if a Mistake Happens

If a child reports an incident, your reaction matters:

  • Stay Calm: A calm response helps the child feel safe.
  • Keep the Evidence: Do not take quick action like deleting images or messages. These are very important for reporting the incident and getting the right help.
  • Seek Guidance: Contact your local police department or local Children’s Advocacy Center (CAC) for advice.
  • Report Online Abuse: If you see or suspect child sexual abuse material online, report it to the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children through their Cyber Tipline.

Taking Action

We need your help to protect our children, and to do that we need you to:

  • Ask your children’s schools, recreational programs/centers, summer camps, and other youth serving organizations to work with your local CAC for training in recognizing and responding to abuse.
  • Reach out to your local CAC to ask how you can learn more about the issue, request or organize training for your local community, school, non-profit organization, or business.
  • If you are concerned that a child is being exploited, report it right away! You can report suspicious behaviors to your local Children’s Advocacy Center, law enforcement agency or file a report with the Department of Children and Families.
  • There are numerous online resources for online exploitation of children. Visit the website for the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children to learn more about these resources, including their Take It Down resource at https://takeitdown.ncmec.org/

Your Local Resources

Risk to our children is increasing. If you want to help us stop this, please contact us.

  • Children’s Cove | 508.375.0410 | www.childrenscove.org
  • Bristol County | 508.674.6111 | www.cacofbc.org
  • Plymouth County | 508.580.3383 | www.cac.plymouthda.com
  • Massachusetts Children’s Alliance | 617.573.9800 | www.machildrensalliance.org

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Community Partner Spotlight: Barnstable County Regional Emergency Planning Committee

March 4, 2026 by Jacob Stapledon

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Community Partner Spotlight: Barnstable County Regional Emergency Planning Committee

Jacob Stapledon

March 4th, 2026

The recent impact of The Blizzard of 2026 was a major test for our region; widespread power outages and loss of communications shutdown businesses and disrupted daily life across the county. During this difficult time, many community groups stepped up to help, including our partners at the Family Table Collaborative. To all who helped Cape and Island communities through the storm, Children’s Cove would like to express heartfelt appreciation.

Helping a community during a disaster however requires more than just good intentions; it requires specialized leadership which knows how to organize resources for the greatest result. This essential work is led by our fellow county employees in the Barnstable County Department of Health & Environment, specifically the Emergency Preparedness Division, which coordinates the Barnstable County Regional Emergency Planning Committee (BCREPC).

The Barnstable County Regional Emergency Planning Committee (BCREPC) is a coalition of law enforcement, fire service, health care, public health, public works, EMS, military, and numerous other affiliated agencies representing Barnstable County and Nantucket County. BCREPC holds regular monthly meetings, providing a forum for partners to align emergency response protocols, review preparedness initiatives, and discuss emerging threats such as severe weather. These meetings also serve as opportunities for joint training and knowledge sharing. The BCREPC additionally organizes coordination calls before, during, and after significant weather events, ensuring local governments, private sector stakeholders, and non-governmental organizations are synchronized in response and recovery efforts.

At the onset of an emergency, the BCREPC activates its Multi-Agency Coordination Center (MACC) at the Barnstable County Complex. The MACC serves as the central hub for the region, directing the opening of regional shelters and facilitating the distribution of emergency resources to individual towns. The importance of this coordination was underscored during the height of the recent blizzard when Governor Maura Healey visited the MACC to meet with regional partners managing response operations. This centralized command ensured that approximately 200 local, state, and utility partners remained in lockstep through bi-daily coordination calls.

Governor Healey receives a briefing inside the MACC operations room from emergency management leaders, including MACC Manager Mike Walker and Acting Emergency Management Director Andrew Platt.
Governor Healey receives a briefing inside the MACC operations room from emergency management leaders, including MACC Manager Mike Walker and Acting Emergency Management Director Andrew Platt.

The results of this teamwork during the blizzard were impressive. While over 150,000 customers lost power across Barnstable County, the BCREPC helped open six regional shelters and 14 warming centers for people who needed a safe, warm place to stay. While utility crews from across the Northeast and Canada worked to fix power lines, the Family Table Collaborative provided 17,000 meals to those in need. Transportation was also a key part of the plan, as the Cape Cod RTA helped move residents and their pets to shelters. This massive effort succeeded because every group, from AmeriCorps members to public health nurses, knew exactly what their role was.

Governor Maura Healey and Senator Julian Cyr pose with AmeriCorps Cape Cod members currently staffing the Dennis-Yarmouth Regional Shelter, supporting residents impacted by widespread power outages.
Governor Maura Healey and Senator Julian Cyr pose with AmeriCorps Cape Cod members currently staffing the Dennis-Yarmouth Regional Shelter, supporting residents impacted by widespread power outages.

The successful recovery from this historic storm shows why planning and cooperation are so important. Many county staff members even took on extra responsibilities outside of their normal jobs to make sure the MACC operated effectively. We want to thank the entire Emergency Preparedness team and the many volunteers who helped our community get back on its feet. Their hard work is a perfect example of how Barnstable County Government works every day to protect and serve its residents.

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Our Take: Online Safety Critical in 2026

December 16, 2025 by Jacob Stapledon

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Our Take: Online Safety Critical in 2026

Jacob Stapledon

December 17, 2025

In 2025, Children’s Cove partnered with The Monomoy Regional School District, Mashpee School District, and The Institute for Responsible Online and Cell Phone Communication (IROC2) to provide online safety and digital mindfulness information to students from 3rd to 8th grade.   The tremendous success of these programs has laid the groundwork for a wider community presentation in 2026.

During his programs, Richard Guerry, Executive Director and Speaker for IROC2, delivers Digital Mindfulness and Online Safety information with infectious energy, ensuring high engagement with students. Following his visits, we received rave reviews and positive feedback from students, teachers, faculty, and parents. With the rapid growth of technology and the concerning rise of online facilitated crimes against children, Children’s Cove is bringing more than a dozen presentations to students and the community in January and February 2026.

Through our dialogue and conversations with students, we gained deeper insight into how much children understand about technology, the risks they face, and the even greater risks they may encounter in the future. What started as a simple engagement exercise last spring led to a sobering realization: children who haven’t even entered high school, who interact regularly with others online, are already finding themselves engaging with people who mean to do harm.

As Richard Guerry states in his presentation, “With new technology comes even faster methods of communication and innovation; these children are ultimately those who face all of the risks.”

While concerns about technology’s impact on children have existed for years, an even greater awareness of these risks is now growing worldwide. In the beginning of 2025, Brazil banned the use of smartphones in their schools, a move currently being discussed here in Massachusetts. In the second week of December this year, the government of Australia banned social media platforms for children under the age of 16. Pediatricians and social scientists are even beginning to discuss whether the implementation of technology as learning devices is having a positive effect at all.

It is our responsibility as a Child Advocacy Center, and as parents and caregivers across our community, to both understand and teach children how to effectively and safely use internet-enabled devices like cell phones, video game systems, and computers. We need to make certain children understand the importance of not sharing personal information online, and that ALL their actions online are Public and Permanent®.

With new technology comes even faster methods of communication and innovation; these children are ultimately those who face all of the risks.”

To start the new year, Children’s Cove is proud to be partnered with seven schools and youth-serving organizations to bring this essential information to the children, parents, and caregivers of our community.

Events Schedule: January and February 2026

January 6, 2026:

  • Chatham Elementary School, students and faculty, grades 3-4
  • Monomoy Regional Middle School, students and faculty, grades 5-7
  • Community presentation for parents and community members
    • Monomoy Regional Middle School
    • Time: 6:00pm

January 7, 2026:

  • Harwich Elementary School, students and faculty, grades 3-4
  • Community Presentation for parents and community members
    • Quashnet Elementary School
    • Time: 6:00pm

January 14, 2026:

  • Martha’s Vineyard Boys and Girls Club, all participants
  • Community Presentation for parents and community members
    • YMCA of Martha’s Vineyard
    • Time: 5:00pm

January 21, 2026

  • St. Pius X School, students and faculty, grades 3-4
  • Pope John Paul II School, students and faculty, grades 5-8
  • Community Presentation for parents and community members
    • Pope John Paul II  School
    • 6:00pm

January 22, 2026

  • Nauset Middle School, students and faculty, grades 5-8
  • Community Presentation for parents and community members
    • Nauset Middle School
    • 6:00pm

February 4th, 2026

  • Community Presentation for parents and community members
    • Hyannis Youth and Community Center
    • 6:00pm

We express our deepest gratitude for each school district and community organization that has partnered with Children’s Cove to bring this essential information to the communities we serve. We also want to thank the Friends of Children’s Cove and the Martha’s Vineyard Community Foundation for providing funds to ensure this critical information reaches Martha’s Vineyard children.

If you are a parent or community member and would like to learn more about these upcoming programs, please contact Jacob Stapledon, Community Engagement and Education Program Manager by emailing him at jacob.stapledon@childrenscove.org 

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Community Partner Spotlight: Friends of Children’s Cove

December 16, 2025 by Jacob Stapledon

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Community Partner Spotlight: Friends of Children’s Cove

Jacob Stapledon

December 17th, 2025

As the only Child Advocacy Center (CAC) which covers the Cape & Islands, Children’s Cove’s work can be described in one word: critical. In 1997, members of the Barnstable County Task Force on Children—a collaboration including Cape Cod Healthcare, the Department of Children and Families, the Cape and Islands District Attorney’s Office, and Barnstable County Government—identified a crucial need for specialized services for children who were victims of child abuse. With no local agencies equipped to provide the specialized supports children needed, they created Barnstable County’s first Child Advocacy Center. Today, Children’s Cove works in partnership to provide a comprehensive, multidisciplinary response to child sexual abuse cases across the Cape and Islands.

While we’re supported by County, State and Federal funds there are limitations and legislative requirements to our budget which restrict our ability to provide critical needs for children and families. It is with the support of dedicated community members, community foundations, and the Friends of Children’s Cove (FoCC) that we can provide support to children at the most urgent of times.

The Friends of Children’s Cove, Inc. is a volunteer and community-led 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization established to support Children’s Cove’s mission and essential services. The FoCC provides support for a timely response to children and families served at Children’s Cove for safety, transportation, basic needs, healing activities, and programs that fall outside of county, state, and federal funding. FoCC provides leadership guidance, promotes community advocacy, and facilitates philanthropic efforts for Children’s Cove.

Funding from the Friends of Children’s Cove directly supports child victims, siblings, and caregivers through three key avenues:

1. Immediate Response Funding: This is the most common form of support and assists children and families by providing financial stipends for basic life essentials, such as food, clothing, transportation, and housing, when there is an immediate need. For example, if it is no longer safe for a child and non-offending parent to return home, they may need a safe place to stay for a day or two.

2. Pathways to Healing: This funding provides children and families with access to activities and services to foster emotional healing as well as opportunities to connect within their community and regain normalcy following trauma. This can include supportive childcare or other resources like summer camp, after-school activities, and more.

3. Community Free of Abuse: These funds expand and support community education services for the prevention of child abuse, raising healthy children, and strategies to navigate challenging situations.

The Friends of Children’s Cove also supports our innovative programs, like the Teen TASK Force, as well as initiatives we have in partnership with A Safe Place on Nantucket and Connect to End Violence on Martha’s Vineyard.

The Friends of Children’s Cove, its volunteers, and Trustees have made an indelible mark on the lives of children in our community, and we cannot express enough gratitude for those who have contributed to their cause.

Get Involved

  • If you would like to learn more, please visit the FoCC website: friendsofchildrenscove.org
  • If you would like to volunteer with FoCC, please fill out this informational form here.

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Commit to Online Safety

December 15, 2025 by Jacob Stapledon

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December 14, 2025 by Jacob Stapledon

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